hi this is my first post not sure what i am doing on this forum or in my life at moment .my husband aged 53 has not been in good health for about six months he has lost a stone in weight dosnt want what i call normal meals but will eat sweets cake ect i will try not to waffel but i dont no where to start.
my hubby although not feeling to well decided to cut the lawn nothing odd in that except when he had finished he went for his bath and left the water running never give it a thought just put it down to his not so good memory. few days later i went to get our green bin to put dead flowers in it was not in the place it is always kept instead there was the lawn mower went in to the garage and there was the bin ,when i asked him about it he became agresive angree he could not remember placing then in wrong place i never said anymore but i was getting worried.
few days later he was cooking bacon for lunch he stood in kitchen and called me and asked do i put this in the chip pan i was horrified he had forgoten something he had cooked almost once a week we made an appointment at gp who sent him to the memory clinic he did few test which were ok but not brill was sent for scan of brain all was ok so sent for more indepth test to which the dr said that his brain was not finding information that had gone in and that he would not get better but would not say what is wrong untill she sent report to consultants five weeks on and we have had no news rang the clinic said they would chace it up but that they are very bussy in the mean time we are so worried scared no need to tell you all what we are feeling ,should we be worried? my husband has told me for thirty years he loves me every day the past six months he has been totaly differant no affection at all he may grab hold of my hand and pat it needless to say i tell him i love him every moment i can i hate leaving him when i go to work he depends on me so much thanx for taking time to read this i hope i have not waffled on and that i can try and make some sence of what is happening to my lovley hubby my name is jan hubby name is lyn (yes lyn we are welsh) do you think we need to be worried ?
my hubby although not feeling to well decided to cut the lawn nothing odd in that except when he had finished he went for his bath and left the water running never give it a thought just put it down to his not so good memory. few days later i went to get our green bin to put dead flowers in it was not in the place it is always kept instead there was the lawn mower went in to the garage and there was the bin ,when i asked him about it he became agresive angree he could not remember placing then in wrong place i never said anymore but i was getting worried.
few days later he was cooking bacon for lunch he stood in kitchen and called me and asked do i put this in the chip pan i was horrified he had forgoten something he had cooked almost once a week we made an appointment at gp who sent him to the memory clinic he did few test which were ok but not brill was sent for scan of brain all was ok so sent for more indepth test to which the dr said that his brain was not finding information that had gone in and that he would not get better but would not say what is wrong untill she sent report to consultants five weeks on and we have had no news rang the clinic said they would chace it up but that they are very bussy in the mean time we are so worried scared no need to tell you all what we are feeling ,should we be worried? my husband has told me for thirty years he loves me every day the past six months he has been totaly differant no affection at all he may grab hold of my hand and pat it needless to say i tell him i love him every moment i can i hate leaving him when i go to work he depends on me so much thanx for taking time to read this i hope i have not waffled on and that i can try and make some sence of what is happening to my lovley hubby my name is jan hubby name is lyn (yes lyn we are welsh) do you think we need to be worried ?
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