This is my first message as before today I have just spent time reading your threads. Feel it's time to say hello.
My story is not unusual: my mother was diagnosed in October and has been on Galantamine since March. I have done all the arranging as my dad died 6 years ago and my brother lives a long way from us. I work full time and have a family.
Mum has a carer once a day to supervise medication. She does nothing all day and hasn't been out alone since the diagnosis. She is convinced she isn't in her own home and has no idea what day it is. It's like having another child, but unfortunately not one I love. We have never had a good relationship and it's now full of confusion and guilt. I loved my dad and wish he was here and mum wasn't, which I know is terrible.
I have recently 'cracked' and because of my own physical and emotional health problems I have been off work for a little while. I am waiting for hospital appointment so have had to fill mum's freezer and hope the care system I have worked so hard to put into place, works.
It's so hard spending my time weeping and relying on my husband for so much support when it's me who wants to be the supporter. I am so tired and low.
My story is not unusual: my mother was diagnosed in October and has been on Galantamine since March. I have done all the arranging as my dad died 6 years ago and my brother lives a long way from us. I work full time and have a family.
Mum has a carer once a day to supervise medication. She does nothing all day and hasn't been out alone since the diagnosis. She is convinced she isn't in her own home and has no idea what day it is. It's like having another child, but unfortunately not one I love. We have never had a good relationship and it's now full of confusion and guilt. I loved my dad and wish he was here and mum wasn't, which I know is terrible.
I have recently 'cracked' and because of my own physical and emotional health problems I have been off work for a little while. I am waiting for hospital appointment so have had to fill mum's freezer and hope the care system I have worked so hard to put into place, works.
It's so hard spending my time weeping and relying on my husband for so much support when it's me who wants to be the supporter. I am so tired and low.