Hi All
I have been around since july but have only logged on a couple iof times as been a bit in denial. Well its all so real now. My poor young Mummy aged (57) had a fall in december and broke both her wrists and was black and blue thisis while we assumed she was safe yet she has NO idea how this happened. Mum was taken to hospital and has since been taken to a home for 6 weeks. I brought mum to me for 4 days over christmas as she is completely dependant.I now realise that mum may nnever be safe to go home. The prospect of this seems so overwhelming. i am trulkt heartbroken and feel like i am grieveing someone who has potentially years to live. The aricept has if anything made her worse and after expecting some ompovment have been left with this whole night mare and heart braking decions to make. I am so so so sad right nnow and just needed to share this as it has been a very very tough old time. I left mum at the home today and she couldnt grasp saying goodbye whilst finding the smoke room, It was too confusing...God did I cry..Love to all of you going through this . Jill x
I have been around since july but have only logged on a couple iof times as been a bit in denial. Well its all so real now. My poor young Mummy aged (57) had a fall in december and broke both her wrists and was black and blue thisis while we assumed she was safe yet she has NO idea how this happened. Mum was taken to hospital and has since been taken to a home for 6 weeks. I brought mum to me for 4 days over christmas as she is completely dependant.I now realise that mum may nnever be safe to go home. The prospect of this seems so overwhelming. i am trulkt heartbroken and feel like i am grieveing someone who has potentially years to live. The aricept has if anything made her worse and after expecting some ompovment have been left with this whole night mare and heart braking decions to make. I am so so so sad right nnow and just needed to share this as it has been a very very tough old time. I left mum at the home today and she couldnt grasp saying goodbye whilst finding the smoke room, It was too confusing...God did I cry..Love to all of you going through this . Jill x