Thanks @Dimpsy @Pete1 @canary for your replies x
Yes it is catch 22, while I'm here shes safe but doesnt get SS care and if I leave she might get SS care as long as survives whatever crisis that puts her at risk enough for them to help.
I know its not SW's fault its the system and the cost that means they have to follow these tick boxes. SW did say she understood why I don't leave mum and didn't think she would either but thats all can do. She told me and mum she didn't think mum could cope on her own and that if I left she didn't think it would be long before a crisis happened.
Its says on care plan Andrea is aware that sometimes the situation is to reach crisis point. Being aware doesn't make it right though. She didn't put on there that she didn't think mum would cope on her own either though, and I know it needs to be summarised but I don't think assessmemt and needs bits are as detailed as could be, it seems a bit general and misses examples out to me, but then I do ramble on and it is a form with only so much space.
Waiting for a crisis to react to rathet than preventing one seems to be the way SS act which is probably why there are so many people doing what I'm doing which is sad
Yes it is catch 22, while I'm here shes safe but doesnt get SS care and if I leave she might get SS care as long as survives whatever crisis that puts her at risk enough for them to help.
I know its not SW's fault its the system and the cost that means they have to follow these tick boxes. SW did say she understood why I don't leave mum and didn't think she would either but thats all can do. She told me and mum she didn't think mum could cope on her own and that if I left she didn't think it would be long before a crisis happened.
Its says on care plan Andrea is aware that sometimes the situation is to reach crisis point. Being aware doesn't make it right though. She didn't put on there that she didn't think mum would cope on her own either though, and I know it needs to be summarised but I don't think assessmemt and needs bits are as detailed as could be, it seems a bit general and misses examples out to me, but then I do ramble on and it is a form with only so much space.
Waiting for a crisis to react to rathet than preventing one seems to be the way SS act which is probably why there are so many people doing what I'm doing which is sad