My Mum was also offered the care button and also refused it. Since the SW had arranged a 4 daily carer visit, they also wanted a key safe so they could get in, however Mum also refused that, but they put one on anyway.
As I was not willing or able to provide the 24 hour care that Mum really needed, a crisis did occur, which is how she ended up in a care home.
Since then she has improved physically, has put on weight, is in a clean and warm place, has stimulation and company, regularly eats and drinks, can have a bath for shower, in fact she is warm too, which is a new thing.
The fact that the care team were the ones to call 999 and I refused to get involved, to the extent of when she was in hospital recently and the ward wanted my contact number I told them to contact the care home if Mum needed to be discharged. It might sound cruel but I knew that the alternative would be Mums well being being compromised again.
The only way out, it seems is to get your PWD assessed by GP and social workers and disclaim any responsibility. You can also involve an advocate for yourself and direct all communications via your advocate. Social services will not intervene unless there is a crisis or the PWD is seen to be a risk to themselves or others.
As I was not willing or able to provide the 24 hour care that Mum really needed, a crisis did occur, which is how she ended up in a care home.
Since then she has improved physically, has put on weight, is in a clean and warm place, has stimulation and company, regularly eats and drinks, can have a bath for shower, in fact she is warm too, which is a new thing.
The fact that the care team were the ones to call 999 and I refused to get involved, to the extent of when she was in hospital recently and the ward wanted my contact number I told them to contact the care home if Mum needed to be discharged. It might sound cruel but I knew that the alternative would be Mums well being being compromised again.
The only way out, it seems is to get your PWD assessed by GP and social workers and disclaim any responsibility. You can also involve an advocate for yourself and direct all communications via your advocate. Social services will not intervene unless there is a crisis or the PWD is seen to be a risk to themselves or others.