Hi - I have just got back from visiting my mum in her care home. Sadly she has lost her gold necklace. This necklace was sentimental value from my father, it is a beautiful necklace that mum never takes off (until yesterday!!). She said she was sitting on her bed and took it off to clean it and then it fell on floor. Anyway it is now not on the floor so along with two carers we have searched her room thoroughly. Nothing. Yes I know she probably should not have been wearing it and I should have taken it from her but I honestly have never seen her without it. I didn't think she could even get it off. I have now removed all her jewellery and watch apart from her wedding ring which she cannot shift due to swollen fingers. I feel as if I am to blame as I should have realised that she would do that - she puts things in all sorts of places, inside plant pots, old envelopes etc etc .....The care home have said that things always turn up and they have a photo of mum wearing the necklace. Fingers crossed.
Moral to the story is when your relative goes into a care home please remove any precious jewellery and replace if needs be with costume jewellery. I wish I was told this when mum entered her home last November. I feel very sad as although its only a necklace it was Mum - she loved her jewellery.
Has anyone had a similar experience?
Moral to the story is when your relative goes into a care home please remove any precious jewellery and replace if needs be with costume jewellery. I wish I was told this when mum entered her home last November. I feel very sad as although its only a necklace it was Mum - she loved her jewellery.
Has anyone had a similar experience?