Hello
@Kcaj26 you are welcome here and I hope you find the forum to be a friendly and supportive place.
I think a first step is to contact SS to ask for emergency respite due to carer burnout. Remind them that it is they who have the legal duty of care towards the person with the dementia, and the other vulnerable adult, the carer.
I hope you have time to take a good look around the site as it is a goldmine for information. When I first joined I read old threads for information but then found the AS Publications list and the page where a post code search can be done to check for support services in ones own area. If you are interested in these, clicking the following links will take
You will see that there are Factsheets that will help with things like getting care needs assessments, deciding the level of care required and sorting out useful things like Wills, Power of Attorney etc., if any of that hasn't already been done.
Now that you have found us I hope you will keep posting as the membership has vast collective knowledge and experience.