My 83yo mum who is fiercely independent and recently diagnosed with vascular dementia has ‘sacked’ the home help I’d just put in place (3xweek) a couple of weeks ago.
She blames her for breaking the washing machine and the dishwasher amongst other things and seems to think she can do a better job herself (she can’t).
I know this is probably just because she doesn’t want any help ... but this is now going to make it doubly difficult for her to accept any help in the future. The home help was to get her used to someone coming in regularly before we moved to daily care as I live 100 miles away.
Has anyone got any advice on the sort of words I can use to get her to accept help?
She blames her for breaking the washing machine and the dishwasher amongst other things and seems to think she can do a better job herself (she can’t).
I know this is probably just because she doesn’t want any help ... but this is now going to make it doubly difficult for her to accept any help in the future. The home help was to get her used to someone coming in regularly before we moved to daily care as I live 100 miles away.
Has anyone got any advice on the sort of words I can use to get her to accept help?