I don't have a single long-running thread
@Agzy but the many posts that I have made since joining Dementia Talking Point chart in a roughly sequential way my experience of my wife's struggles with dementia. I read advice on the forum about starting some kind of journal or diary and started doing so in April 2017 with the objective of making a record:
"as far as I can remember it of my wife's journey into and through Alzheimer’s disease as seen by me as her partner, lover and carer. It records significant events and feelings from my perspective and attempts to show how this has affected me as an individual and us as a couple. It cannot hope to capture all of the daily challenges that we have faced together nor give any insight into how this terrible disease feels from her point of view."
I looked retrospectively for signs of the onset of dementia and found them as far back as 2010, 6 years before diagnosis.
My journal has grown to a ridiculous 63,000+ words. At one point, frustrated with the lack of empathy and understanding shown by my wife's son, I shared part of it with him. I doubt if he ever read any of it. But members of DTP have, as some of my posts are taken from - or have found a place in - my journal.
Who is it for? Just me, of course. Like any piece of work or academic study I have ever completed, it is destined to become "proud words on a dusty shelf", never read and eventually forgotten about and thrown away.