Think I tempted fate.....my Mum has had carers for the grand total of 10 days...twice a day, quick med check in the morning then to heat up a meal at night. She now wants me to cancel them as ‘she didn’t bloody agree to this’ and sees no need for them. I tried to explain this give us all a bit of security and it was early days but she’s adamant. I’ve gone through the fact that I can no longer sustain a visit every night which apparently is fine! Sadly I then entered flounce mode and told her that I’d do it. I’ve no idea how to progress with this, I’ve tried reasoning telling her how it will benefit her, how it will help her keep her independence, telling how hard I’m finding it and then yes, flouncing all to no avail. Anyone any ideas?