There seems to be lots of information and support for people who are considering putting a loved one into a care home, but very little information about how to keep someone living in a family home for as long as possible.
I feel I am swimming against the tide, and up against huge pressure from all sides to put Dad into a care home when it is not yet necessary.
I seem to be very lucky in that Dad remains gentle, calm and compliant - although he needs lots of reassurance, and familiar routine. It can be tiring, but no more so than coping with teenagers through those horrendous hormonal and exam years - and possible with live in help.
Dad is losing mobility and one specific problem that I have encountered is some care agencies refusing to allow a carer to transfer Dad using a hoist with a family member as the second carer - even after I volunteered to do their own training course! It seems able-bodied people will have to sit and watch (and pay) 2 external carers to do transfers!
I couldn't find a thread on this, so would be interested to know if anyone else is having similar issues.
I feel I am swimming against the tide, and up against huge pressure from all sides to put Dad into a care home when it is not yet necessary.
I seem to be very lucky in that Dad remains gentle, calm and compliant - although he needs lots of reassurance, and familiar routine. It can be tiring, but no more so than coping with teenagers through those horrendous hormonal and exam years - and possible with live in help.
Dad is losing mobility and one specific problem that I have encountered is some care agencies refusing to allow a carer to transfer Dad using a hoist with a family member as the second carer - even after I volunteered to do their own training course! It seems able-bodied people will have to sit and watch (and pay) 2 external carers to do transfers!
I couldn't find a thread on this, so would be interested to know if anyone else is having similar issues.