Hi, please can someone point me to a fact sheet or relevant post which covers how to try and get a PWD to understand diagnosis of a serious health problem?
My moms recently had some tests which show a mass on her lungs and although we don’t have diagnosis yet, the signs are that it could be cancer. The last hospital appointment was hurriedly arranged by the hospital calling the residential care home a couple of days before and I only found out about it the night before - the home had to provide a member of staff to take her in a taxi. The next appointment is just over a week away and as she’s already had an X-ray and CT scan, I’m guessing they will be getting close to knowing what it is, or at least deciding on more invasive tests. This time I’m taking her so I can ask questions and understand the situation. I hold power of attorney.
As she’s been discharged from the mental health team, I don’t really know what stage her Alzheimer’s Disease has reached but, despite surprising ‘hostess mode’ moments, she is deteriorating. She has no recollection of being in hospital earlier this week, can’t easily explain if she’s in pain, too hot etc, can’t remember what she had for her last meal and is forgetting a lot of key people in her life. Will she be expected to show that she understands any diagnosis? I know she will probably just nod politely but I’d be surprised if she understood any details. Is there a particular word pattern or way of explaining which might be more successful? I’d much prefer her to try and tell me how she feels about it rather than me making unilateral decisions. Do the doctors have a duty to get her to understand?
Thanks very much
My moms recently had some tests which show a mass on her lungs and although we don’t have diagnosis yet, the signs are that it could be cancer. The last hospital appointment was hurriedly arranged by the hospital calling the residential care home a couple of days before and I only found out about it the night before - the home had to provide a member of staff to take her in a taxi. The next appointment is just over a week away and as she’s already had an X-ray and CT scan, I’m guessing they will be getting close to knowing what it is, or at least deciding on more invasive tests. This time I’m taking her so I can ask questions and understand the situation. I hold power of attorney.
As she’s been discharged from the mental health team, I don’t really know what stage her Alzheimer’s Disease has reached but, despite surprising ‘hostess mode’ moments, she is deteriorating. She has no recollection of being in hospital earlier this week, can’t easily explain if she’s in pain, too hot etc, can’t remember what she had for her last meal and is forgetting a lot of key people in her life. Will she be expected to show that she understands any diagnosis? I know she will probably just nod politely but I’d be surprised if she understood any details. Is there a particular word pattern or way of explaining which might be more successful? I’d much prefer her to try and tell me how she feels about it rather than me making unilateral decisions. Do the doctors have a duty to get her to understand?
Thanks very much