Is anyone on TP, an only child and lost one or both parents, and been a full-time carer to them? Or, who here has been a long-term carer to a PWD and is now really struggling without that role? How are you coping with life without your loved one and without that caring role anymore?
I was a carer for such a long time, I find the world such a terrifying place now, if that makes any sense. I have said this before in a different post, but it just makes no sense, to have lost my purpose in life and to have so much free time - I make myself do stuff but gain very little pleasure. I lost dad in 2010 and mum in October last year - 5 months ago. Mum had dementia and I miss her so much, it literally does feel like a broken heart. I was heartbroken over dad, but this, now, having lost mum and the whole structure of my life, is like a sledgehammer has come along and crashed into my life. 5 months compared to my more than 30 years looking after someone - it simply isn't possible to feel anything but torment for the conceivable future.
I was a carer for such a long time, I find the world such a terrifying place now, if that makes any sense. I have said this before in a different post, but it just makes no sense, to have lost my purpose in life and to have so much free time - I make myself do stuff but gain very little pleasure. I lost dad in 2010 and mum in October last year - 5 months ago. Mum had dementia and I miss her so much, it literally does feel like a broken heart. I was heartbroken over dad, but this, now, having lost mum and the whole structure of my life, is like a sledgehammer has come along and crashed into my life. 5 months compared to my more than 30 years looking after someone - it simply isn't possible to feel anything but torment for the conceivable future.
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