Hi Everybody
On 18th September 2017 we found out that my 60yr old mum has early onset dementia. We are waiting for the final diagnosis after an MRI and lumbar puncture was done but the consultant thinks its either Alzheimer's or Lewy Body Dementia. We expect to go back to London to see the consultant again in about 4-6 weeks time.
Mum started suffering with memory problems (lost keys, putting handbag down in a shop and forgetting to pick it up kind of thing) about 18 months - 2yrs ago. We first took her to the doctor in January 2016 but it was treated as depression until Mum failed a memory test and was referred to a psychiatrist. Mum has all the while been getting steadily worse and she now relies on my dad (aged 64) completely. It has taken so long to get to the point of diagnosis that as devastated as we all are we are relieved that finally we get some answers / help.
I am 33yrs old with a 3yr old son and I never expected to be in this situation. I feel like I have lost my Mum already and it upsets me so much that I can't remember the last time she was 'normal.' I struggle to help my Dad with caring for Mum as much as i would like as I work 2 jobs, have my son and husband to look after/care for and all the other usual household jobs to do. Next week my parents are relocating to Lincolnshire (from Hertfordshire where we all currently live) so that my dad can focus on being her full time carer without as many financial worries. There will be an 87 mile distance between us and I am worrying how my Dad will cope. I will visit as often as I can but it will be such a big change from the near daily visits I get from them now (we live 2 minutes apart)
Sorry for the long opening message from me. Would be nice to hear from anybody in the same/similar situation. X
On 18th September 2017 we found out that my 60yr old mum has early onset dementia. We are waiting for the final diagnosis after an MRI and lumbar puncture was done but the consultant thinks its either Alzheimer's or Lewy Body Dementia. We expect to go back to London to see the consultant again in about 4-6 weeks time.
Mum started suffering with memory problems (lost keys, putting handbag down in a shop and forgetting to pick it up kind of thing) about 18 months - 2yrs ago. We first took her to the doctor in January 2016 but it was treated as depression until Mum failed a memory test and was referred to a psychiatrist. Mum has all the while been getting steadily worse and she now relies on my dad (aged 64) completely. It has taken so long to get to the point of diagnosis that as devastated as we all are we are relieved that finally we get some answers / help.
I am 33yrs old with a 3yr old son and I never expected to be in this situation. I feel like I have lost my Mum already and it upsets me so much that I can't remember the last time she was 'normal.' I struggle to help my Dad with caring for Mum as much as i would like as I work 2 jobs, have my son and husband to look after/care for and all the other usual household jobs to do. Next week my parents are relocating to Lincolnshire (from Hertfordshire where we all currently live) so that my dad can focus on being her full time carer without as many financial worries. There will be an 87 mile distance between us and I am worrying how my Dad will cope. I will visit as often as I can but it will be such a big change from the near daily visits I get from them now (we live 2 minutes apart)
Sorry for the long opening message from me. Would be nice to hear from anybody in the same/similar situation. X