Mum has been in care since July last, and up until Feb this year, she had a few knick knacks in her room, photos, vases, artificial flowers, magazines in her drawer, and we kept her little tinsel Christmas Tree up as she liked it. Same with her Christmas cards.
Then from Feb shes had 2 UTI's, and things have turned to custard.
Agitation, anxiety, mood swings, lack of appetite, taking her to her room..... suddenly Mum who was always very social joining in everything, talking to everyone, is now avoiding residents in the main lounge " as there are too many people"
3 weeks ago they started Mum on 0.25mg of Lorazepam, and she has been alot better. Still having the odd off day, but eating better, and joining in activities a little more.
I think what has been hard to accept, and I suppose with taking to her room more, everything over this time is either lost, broken, trashed, or destroyed, or ripped up in shreds. Even her artificial flowers are broken, ripped apart, or you will fund sitting in a jar of face cream, or in a glass of orange juice, sheets pulled off her bed, pillow cases off and folded, cushions busted, zips broken..... Even now after her UTI's, anti biotics, blood tests for everything under the sun, and start of Lorazepam she is still the same.
She does not appear in pain.
All Mum has left is her bed, dresser and chair.
When Mum first went into care, a lady that Mum became friendly with asked us to look at her room. Much like Mum now, she had no personal possesions and I thought how sad Now I know probably the reason why.
My daughter made Mum a little floral wall hanging, which I took up yesterday. I'm not holding out hope.
Is there any answer to this? Is it just a phase?
Then from Feb shes had 2 UTI's, and things have turned to custard.
Agitation, anxiety, mood swings, lack of appetite, taking her to her room..... suddenly Mum who was always very social joining in everything, talking to everyone, is now avoiding residents in the main lounge " as there are too many people"
3 weeks ago they started Mum on 0.25mg of Lorazepam, and she has been alot better. Still having the odd off day, but eating better, and joining in activities a little more.
I think what has been hard to accept, and I suppose with taking to her room more, everything over this time is either lost, broken, trashed, or destroyed, or ripped up in shreds. Even her artificial flowers are broken, ripped apart, or you will fund sitting in a jar of face cream, or in a glass of orange juice, sheets pulled off her bed, pillow cases off and folded, cushions busted, zips broken..... Even now after her UTI's, anti biotics, blood tests for everything under the sun, and start of Lorazepam she is still the same.
She does not appear in pain.
All Mum has left is her bed, dresser and chair.
When Mum first went into care, a lady that Mum became friendly with asked us to look at her room. Much like Mum now, she had no personal possesions and I thought how sad Now I know probably the reason why.
My daughter made Mum a little floral wall hanging, which I took up yesterday. I'm not holding out hope.
Is there any answer to this? Is it just a phase?