I am wondering is anyone else has had this issue, mom has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's dementia but will not accept the diagnosis, which was provid d by more than one health professionl. This was originally started when she lived at home and came under ****** NHS trust. Since moving into a care how much in ************** we have had to go through the whole process again, and have been told that we need to have a lumber puncture test to see if she has hydrocephalus, she is 83, she is very confused and demonstrates the signs of dementia, but we are having to put her through this procedure before anyone will then do anything else.
I'm really confused as to why we are having to go through this, and am wondering if everyone else has been through this. In addition to all this she is deteriating her memory is so confused but she is now becoming very aggressive and appears to be doing everything she can to get self thrown out of the care home, throwning things at staff refusing her tablets and generally being disruptive. It's getting to th point where we are going to have to look to move her as we are concerned the care home will say they can't cope with her. The odd thing is at times she is perfectly nice, very calm but just confused.
Trying to get any sense or support from anyone seems to be a challenge, but the mental health team are telling us they are not able to do anything until we have have this lumber procedure, but then what I don't know, and what happens if she says she is not having it, they will have to do by general anaesthetic as there is no way she will sit still and allow them to do it.
I am confused as to why it seems that we have to go through this before anyone will really advise us. She is not on the dementia unit at the current care home as she is still capable of looking after herself, but if we move her she will have to go onto a more secure unit.
Anybody having the same or similar issues?
I'm really confused as to why we are having to go through this, and am wondering if everyone else has been through this. In addition to all this she is deteriating her memory is so confused but she is now becoming very aggressive and appears to be doing everything she can to get self thrown out of the care home, throwning things at staff refusing her tablets and generally being disruptive. It's getting to th point where we are going to have to look to move her as we are concerned the care home will say they can't cope with her. The odd thing is at times she is perfectly nice, very calm but just confused.
Trying to get any sense or support from anyone seems to be a challenge, but the mental health team are telling us they are not able to do anything until we have have this lumber procedure, but then what I don't know, and what happens if she says she is not having it, they will have to do by general anaesthetic as there is no way she will sit still and allow them to do it.
I am confused as to why it seems that we have to go through this before anyone will really advise us. She is not on the dementia unit at the current care home as she is still capable of looking after herself, but if we move her she will have to go onto a more secure unit.
Anybody having the same or similar issues?
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