Hello,
Has anyone else out there been faced with that awful decision when your loved one is unable to fight the umpteenth UT infection and has sepsis; the carers and doctors are pointing to the 'don't take them to hospital route'?
We let my Mum pass peacefully in the care home surrounded by those who loved and cared for her rather than put her through any more.
They said going to hospital would be very stressful and she would most probably come back a lot worse than before and be bed ridden. That is, if she came back at all and then it would only be a matter of weeks before the next infection.
At the time it seemed right to let her go and be with Dad and free from the Alzheimers but now I am feeling the 'what if we had tried sending her to hospital, would she have survived and how would she be?' questions.
She was near to the late stages in her Alzheimers.
I am finding it hard to cope with these feelings.
Has anyone else out there been faced with that awful decision when your loved one is unable to fight the umpteenth UT infection and has sepsis; the carers and doctors are pointing to the 'don't take them to hospital route'?
We let my Mum pass peacefully in the care home surrounded by those who loved and cared for her rather than put her through any more.
They said going to hospital would be very stressful and she would most probably come back a lot worse than before and be bed ridden. That is, if she came back at all and then it would only be a matter of weeks before the next infection.
At the time it seemed right to let her go and be with Dad and free from the Alzheimers but now I am feeling the 'what if we had tried sending her to hospital, would she have survived and how would she be?' questions.
She was near to the late stages in her Alzheimers.
I am finding it hard to cope with these feelings.