My brother and I have always taken it in turn to have mum for Christmas Day ....
This year it's me ...... and the first year mum has been diagnosed with vascular dementia and Alzheimer's.
Mum is still in her own home but A & VD have rally taken a hold these last 6 months.
So, Christmas.....
My gut feeling is t visit her at her house, as we do on a "normal day" or bring her to us.
I think she'd feel a bit overwhelmed coming to us ...
Or am I looking for the easy option ....... arrrrghhhhh
Really don't know what to do
This year it's me ...... and the first year mum has been diagnosed with vascular dementia and Alzheimer's.
Mum is still in her own home but A & VD have rally taken a hold these last 6 months.
So, Christmas.....
My gut feeling is t visit her at her house, as we do on a "normal day" or bring her to us.
I think she'd feel a bit overwhelmed coming to us ...
Or am I looking for the easy option ....... arrrrghhhhh
Really don't know what to do