We now seem to have reached a different phase. My OH has been getting increasingly agitated and is verbally abusive now if I dare say anything he doesn't like. It's either 'you've always got an answer, think you're always right etc etc' and that's generally just the answer to a question or he says why don't you look after me properly, you don't care, youre cruel, you're driving me mad and so on with increasingly abusive language. Reached a new height last week when after a minor incident he tried to throttle me, I was terrified, we were away at the time. I have so little support, who do I tell. I really feel I can't carry on like this but I know I have to. I'm always worried now going to bed and can't sleep. Pls tell me what you think. We're now almost into year 8. Will the professionals help or do I just have to get on with it.