Not posted for a while... Mam not so bad now seems to be on an even keel .. they were refused a grant for a dfg..so my partner who works away on his three days off put one in for them..he's away now for 5 weeks straight.Dad had a TIA in the middle of it all ..so one day in hospital..stopped dad from driving I live 50 miles away and commute full time to my job and call and see them twice a week. .Try to do my best ...Not god enough for dad who seems to unburden all his stuff on me .and then fotget it all .ended up with a migraine today so anothet sick day of work.. only child phew ..Im exhausted.. and feeling sorry for myself .....thats it just worn out with all the **** ..l9ve to you all out there xxxxxx