Thank you all for your kind words. I am sorry for making you cry!
This is a truly horrible illness and I have been through the early dark days when the person you love is disappearing in front of your eyes. I have wept buckets of tears and raged and tore myself almost in two. I needed my Mum as my kids were young but she wasn't there or was odd and strange. I have been in that big black hole. Yet surprisingly now, approaching the end, I find myself quite calm and not that stressed. I know that I love her and that throughout she loved me, jsut this illness turned her into a different person.
It is wonderful to know that you are there. I think that my only fear now is that I may be typing the emails in another year saying exactly the same thing and boring you all senseless.
Yet I cannot stop visiting. I only go twice a week due to time constraints (Mum is in a NH 35 miles away) and to try and give my family a normal life too. I am therefore Mum as surely as pre illness she was always there for me. I woudln't want anything less for to be less to me is not to be the person she brought me up to be, the person who cares.
Thanks to all of you as you fight this illness with your own woes and fears. It is really good that you share your strengths and fears with me.
This is a truly horrible illness and I have been through the early dark days when the person you love is disappearing in front of your eyes. I have wept buckets of tears and raged and tore myself almost in two. I needed my Mum as my kids were young but she wasn't there or was odd and strange. I have been in that big black hole. Yet surprisingly now, approaching the end, I find myself quite calm and not that stressed. I know that I love her and that throughout she loved me, jsut this illness turned her into a different person.
It is wonderful to know that you are there. I think that my only fear now is that I may be typing the emails in another year saying exactly the same thing and boring you all senseless.
Yet I cannot stop visiting. I only go twice a week due to time constraints (Mum is in a NH 35 miles away) and to try and give my family a normal life too. I am therefore Mum as surely as pre illness she was always there for me. I woudln't want anything less for to be less to me is not to be the person she brought me up to be, the person who cares.
Thanks to all of you as you fight this illness with your own woes and fears. It is really good that you share your strengths and fears with me.