I am posting this under 'middle-later stages' heading because I think F-i-L has made a step change. He was admitted back into hospital yesterday, following 'incidents' in the night. I don't know the full details, but apparently he got out of his bed unassisted, and somehow pulled out his indwelling catheter with the balloon still inflated. There was blood and mess. Carers came in found M-i-L (also with dementia) trying to clean up, and called my in-denial S-i-L (nominated next-of-kin), who went with him to A&E.
The latest is that he has been kept in overnight, and he is hooked up to an IV drip with antibiotics. I know he has a new UTI at the very least, and I hope the IV ABs will be kinder to him than the tablets he was taking, which seemed to be going right through him.
On top of that, my S-i-L has been copied in on a letter that says he has been assessed for CHC funding, but hasn't met the criteria. This I imagine came about following his hospital discharge last week. What CHC assessment? How did that happen? Why weren't family involved in that process?
So many questions, and still a lot of information to find out. My OH and I will be taking M-i-L to visit later today. Surely, in-denial SiL will see now that he is NOT SAFE at home any more?
The latest is that he has been kept in overnight, and he is hooked up to an IV drip with antibiotics. I know he has a new UTI at the very least, and I hope the IV ABs will be kinder to him than the tablets he was taking, which seemed to be going right through him.
On top of that, my S-i-L has been copied in on a letter that says he has been assessed for CHC funding, but hasn't met the criteria. This I imagine came about following his hospital discharge last week. What CHC assessment? How did that happen? Why weren't family involved in that process?
So many questions, and still a lot of information to find out. My OH and I will be taking M-i-L to visit later today. Surely, in-denial SiL will see now that he is NOT SAFE at home any more?