Thanks for all the replies everyone, hit a bit of a rock bottom this week and being on night shift doesn't help as I don't sleep well on this shift anyways. Had to ring the nurse again and they altered her tablets and now she has gone from being a little hellcat to a zombie.
I can't believe that after all these years of people living with dementia in whatever form that the medication isn't perfected yet, to see mam going from one extreme to the other I don't know which one I prefer.
We have a visit next week as well to fill in forms for her to go to a day centre for a few hours a week so that's gonna be a godsend if she is capable with the way she is today I doubt it.....
Anyways as for respite that's a no gooer as dad won't be apart from her for that length of time just getting him to agree to the day centre was a miracle
Henry I really feel for you as I am having to watch my dad do the same thing up until now but he learned the hard way when she tried to get out of the car whilst in motion, now he is very careful about the locks...
Well guys it's dinner time here so gonna sign off, take care everyone of yourself and your loved ones even in the hardest times sometimes the sun shines even tho not as often xx