For those who aren't regulars, background is brother keeps taking mum's savings. She saves up a little couple of grand, he comes up with sob story and takes it all leaving her broke. Last year he left her with £300 in the bank then took the wife and two kids for a long weekend to be beside the seaside with her money, money he said he needed to keep a roof over the kids head, so he lied to get her savings.
Mum was beside herself with worry that her grandchildren would be living on the streets so gave him the money.
He's done it again this year I stopped what he could get out on her pin, so in return he took her to the bank, was "given" another grand and had me removed as POA at the bank. (I am currently, belatedly, now taking on the bank over this as it's registered due to losing capacity).
Mum has late stage heart disease and difficulty breathing, so when I saw an ashtray with fag ends in it I asked who was smoking in her lounge, she said it was my brother and told me about the lovely long weekend he'd had at the seaside with the wife and kids. Seriously unimpressed with anyone smoking around her, it's a lovely summer sit in the garden.
He has not paid one penny back, not one penny, but told mum he may be able to start paying her back in 2014 when he's paid his other bills off. Mum is very poorly, she is wanting to go privately as she's in so much pain and he's had her savings. It's the fourth time he's done this. The first twice were pre dementia so I left it between Mum and him, I didn't approve and let mum know to keep her money for her needs, but it was two adults what could I do? Now she has dementia and I'm her PoA it is my business.
I am fuming.
Mum was beside herself with worry that her grandchildren would be living on the streets so gave him the money.
He's done it again this year I stopped what he could get out on her pin, so in return he took her to the bank, was "given" another grand and had me removed as POA at the bank. (I am currently, belatedly, now taking on the bank over this as it's registered due to losing capacity).
Mum has late stage heart disease and difficulty breathing, so when I saw an ashtray with fag ends in it I asked who was smoking in her lounge, she said it was my brother and told me about the lovely long weekend he'd had at the seaside with the wife and kids. Seriously unimpressed with anyone smoking around her, it's a lovely summer sit in the garden.
He has not paid one penny back, not one penny, but told mum he may be able to start paying her back in 2014 when he's paid his other bills off. Mum is very poorly, she is wanting to go privately as she's in so much pain and he's had her savings. It's the fourth time he's done this. The first twice were pre dementia so I left it between Mum and him, I didn't approve and let mum know to keep her money for her needs, but it was two adults what could I do? Now she has dementia and I'm her PoA it is my business.
I am fuming.