The truth is that people act differently when the have dementia. It's a simple - and as complicated - as that. 'Collecting' other peoples' possessions is one of the things that can happen, aggression is another. We just have to accept that these changes occur sometimes. I'm sure that you are right and that your mother wouldn't take anything that didn't belong to her - prior to dementia - any more than my husband would hit out and punch a lady carer which he has done. Yes, I felt mortified to be told this and know that he would as well as he was never an aggresive person - if he didn't have dementia. As it is, he doesn't remember anything about it.
I would just concentrate on getting cooperation about the hearing aid. I'm glad the teeth were found. I think we have to prioritise our battles in care homes and the hearing aid seems important. I hope it gets sorted out quickly.
I would just concentrate on getting cooperation about the hearing aid. I'm glad the teeth were found. I think we have to prioritise our battles in care homes and the hearing aid seems important. I hope it gets sorted out quickly.