My mom is in hospital. she has aspiration pneamonia. this has been caused because Alzheimer' s desease has affected her ability to swallow liquids and food causing it to enter her lungs. Tomorrow I am seeing her consultant. Last week he said tube feeding through her stomach was not an option because she would not survive the operation. She is 91 on Boxing day. The Doctors have not given up on her as they have tried to give her food through a tube in her nose. Unfortunately she has pulled it out twice. We were told by the speech language therapist that my Mom is not hungry or thirsty. Her brain is dying and even if she could eat, her body will not absorb the food as this vital part of her brain is also affected. I am dreading hearing the words, "There is nothing else we can do." The only thing to do is make her comfortable and stop feeding her.
I have read on the internet that she will not suffer as this is her body shutting down, and she does not want food or drink. Effectively we are not keeping her alive, we are stopping the dying process. My head says one thing and my heart another. How do they know that she will not suffer? It is a terrible decision to have to make.
I have read on the internet that she will not suffer as this is her body shutting down, and she does not want food or drink. Effectively we are not keeping her alive, we are stopping the dying process. My head says one thing and my heart another. How do they know that she will not suffer? It is a terrible decision to have to make.