Thank you it’s so good to hear how you manage. Yes I will try and spray him (and my car after he’s been in it ?) Thank goodness he’s not incontinent … or have I got that to come?
The good news is he had an air purifier fitted this week so I’m hoping his flat will smell a bit nicer now
Hi,
Unfortunately I am at the stage where he has "accidents" he has not made it to the bathroom in time. It isn't pleasant to deal with but I try to remain calm and soothing. I talk through the door and get him into the shower. Once he's in, I remove the clothes to deal with later. Once showered (he won't get his head wet). I then get him into the bath and he lets me wash his back and hair sometimes with a fight other times he let's me. Once out I have a hot chocolat made for him and music on to help him feel better.
There are depends for men that I have for him but he says that he's not there yet. I've invested in more underwear for him so that I don't have to deal with some of the messes. I also have a prescription for loperamide (imodium) in the morning blister pack of meds as he won't take anything other what the doctor has prescribed.
I carry a change of clothes when we are out and have a change of clothes ready at home to put in the bathroom when needed.
I also ask at different times of the day if he has to go the the bathroom.
Not going to lie It isn't easy. I just do what I need to do.