lifes became so difficult its getting to the point i don’t even want to go out with him anymore he’s getting more agaitated and more confused trying to live a ‘normal ‘life doing things normal people do lke go a bus is a nightmare
I live with my dad whos 72 id say hes at stage 5 moderate now
Ive got next to no help and have had to live with the whole situation is just horrendous for instance today I tried going home to were i live to pick up some post get clean clothes but the buses had been diverted so unbeknown to me we went on it get stuck in traffic for 2 hours i had two heavy bags of old clothes and dad gets agitated anyway on a normal 45 min journey back to my place hes wrings he hands he touched hes face constantly everbody stares its that bad so I deceided to get off the bus give up and try tomorrow dad couldnt understand why then i passed the train station i said shall we get the train over which is near were i live no he couldn’t understand that we would need to get train back again though as no buses idecide to drop it just go back to hes house ( 5 min away )theres s train station back on the way so he wanted to jump on the train to go miles away out to the country i saod no thats not the train theres no sense or reasoning i said no thats not the one he starts shouting then spots the original bus stop having forgotten we were there before buses diverted etc hr then insisted that he go back on the bus again to do it all over again sit on the bus for two hours in traffic god .
Unfortunately i live near literally over the rd from were hr lived for 25 yrs so he’s getting mixed up with were im living hes now threatening to walk ‘home ‘
I told him id call the police ,, tried telling him he doesn’t live there he lives here its a constant battle im beginning to actually hate him my life is awful if i bring him over to were i live he gets aggressive some times and totally forgets were he lives thinking that he lives in hes old flat ( as its samr area im on tender hooks everytime i take him over praying i get back ok that i dont have another episode of before i have to just stay 1 hour before he gets sundowns and get him back again home safely on the bus hes got no interest much in music ive bought him dvds which he hasn't much interest in the only thing hes ok with is reading a small bit of the newspapers but wont put hes glasses on forgets or loses them .(like most things ) he ok with mass used to go when well but have to watch him like a hawk incase he jumps up to go to the toilet and gets lost .he follows the cat around trying to feed her ive taking to hiding the cat food now as he’s feeding her all the time and im having to buy cat food all the time spending £20 /30 a week on it .he gets disoriented at evening time hes saying is it ok if i go to the toilet ? can i go bed now ? looking at me as if to see if i know were it is like its my house then he’s saying oh ill be going in the morning he just threaten to walk back to hes house he's at home-right now (to he's old house )which is 3 miles away insisting he was going to walk i told him id call the police thank god he's calmed down now but this is what ive got to put up with among other things he sits there whistling with he's arms folded out of boredom because he's used to being out all day every day he would just find stuff to do its like trying to entertain a toddler thats prone to tantrums
I live with my dad whos 72 id say hes at stage 5 moderate now
Ive got next to no help and have had to live with the whole situation is just horrendous for instance today I tried going home to were i live to pick up some post get clean clothes but the buses had been diverted so unbeknown to me we went on it get stuck in traffic for 2 hours i had two heavy bags of old clothes and dad gets agitated anyway on a normal 45 min journey back to my place hes wrings he hands he touched hes face constantly everbody stares its that bad so I deceided to get off the bus give up and try tomorrow dad couldnt understand why then i passed the train station i said shall we get the train over which is near were i live no he couldn’t understand that we would need to get train back again though as no buses idecide to drop it just go back to hes house ( 5 min away )theres s train station back on the way so he wanted to jump on the train to go miles away out to the country i saod no thats not the train theres no sense or reasoning i said no thats not the one he starts shouting then spots the original bus stop having forgotten we were there before buses diverted etc hr then insisted that he go back on the bus again to do it all over again sit on the bus for two hours in traffic god .
Unfortunately i live near literally over the rd from were hr lived for 25 yrs so he’s getting mixed up with were im living hes now threatening to walk ‘home ‘
I told him id call the police ,, tried telling him he doesn’t live there he lives here its a constant battle im beginning to actually hate him my life is awful if i bring him over to were i live he gets aggressive some times and totally forgets were he lives thinking that he lives in hes old flat ( as its samr area im on tender hooks everytime i take him over praying i get back ok that i dont have another episode of before i have to just stay 1 hour before he gets sundowns and get him back again home safely on the bus hes got no interest much in music ive bought him dvds which he hasn't much interest in the only thing hes ok with is reading a small bit of the newspapers but wont put hes glasses on forgets or loses them .(like most things ) he ok with mass used to go when well but have to watch him like a hawk incase he jumps up to go to the toilet and gets lost .he follows the cat around trying to feed her ive taking to hiding the cat food now as he’s feeding her all the time and im having to buy cat food all the time spending £20 /30 a week on it .he gets disoriented at evening time hes saying is it ok if i go to the toilet ? can i go bed now ? looking at me as if to see if i know were it is like its my house then he’s saying oh ill be going in the morning he just threaten to walk back to hes house he's at home-right now (to he's old house )which is 3 miles away insisting he was going to walk i told him id call the police thank god he's calmed down now but this is what ive got to put up with among other things he sits there whistling with he's arms folded out of boredom because he's used to being out all day every day he would just find stuff to do its like trying to entertain a toddler thats prone to tantrums
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