Lying in bed last night listening to OH snoring and the dog on the bed was running and barking in his sleep I was struggling to nod off, so there I was thinking how horrible the last few weeks have been, thinking how miserable OH always looks even when he's in a good mood, then I suddenly remembered what a friend said years ago about her husband she said he looked liked a bulldog chewing a wasp and another friend said her husband looked like he was sucking a lemon (neither of their husband's have dementia). So I've decided my OH looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp.