We just received a call today from nans care home saying she has not eaten or taken fluids in a few days now. She is in the last stages of dementia so we expected to lose her at some point but it is killing me the longer time is carrying on when I want her to be with grandad now and not in the state she is in anymore. My mum is now by her side but if anyone has been through this that could help in any way I would be most grateful as I don't know how someone can survive without fluids and nutrition and her organs are shutting down so I guess I just need to know what to do.