My siblings act like all is ok.When family visit they look at me and question my life, what Im doing etc in front of my mother who doesn't know she has Alzheimer's. They think shes fine and I am basically wasting my life.
They were all told the diagnosis. No one asks how she is or how I am. I feel like I shouldn't have to run after people with updates etc all the time, especially when they don't believe it.
I try and limit how often my siblings visit and have said one to one time is best but they take personal offence to not being able to visit everyday/at the same time. My mother has said its so much better one to one.
I know Ive done right for my mother but Its hard not to feel like a total failure when everyone is looking at you as if you were and that your life is over.
They were all told the diagnosis. No one asks how she is or how I am. I feel like I shouldn't have to run after people with updates etc all the time, especially when they don't believe it.
I try and limit how often my siblings visit and have said one to one time is best but they take personal offence to not being able to visit everyday/at the same time. My mother has said its so much better one to one.
I know Ive done right for my mother but Its hard not to feel like a total failure when everyone is looking at you as if you were and that your life is over.