Michaelap2002
Registered User
So my mum has early onset Alzheimers and has been diagnosed just over two years but had had symptoms for over 5 years. It's come to a point where she's needed to go in a home. (She lived alone). I have found this beautiful carehome that specialises in young onset dementia. I finally got a place but mum likes it but keeps asking to come home and is bored. The people on her wing are a bit more severe then mum so she is missing having conversations like she had at a day centre shevysed to attend. I'm worried she will decline more rapidly as sometimes she's alone in her room.she has wet herself a few tines as mum forgets to go the toilet and they haven't showered her or took her the toilet in time. Her communication has detiorated but she likes having conversations and being sociable but I've found she's stuck in her room lots when I visit. I'm now wondering if I've made the right decision. The carers are fantastic, but mum doesn't see herself as that bad compared to other residents. I just think she needs some other people around her who can have them conversations. I am going to speak to the manager who is fabulous too but what are your thoughts? Can I request mum coukd maybe go to ithers who can hold a conversation (on a different wing) thankyou in advance for your replies