I've read various suggestions here where people have spoken of the benefits of having a cleaner to the house so that pwd gets used to non-family carers. Aside from the benefits of having some extra cleaning done!
Mum's house isn't dirty at all but I'm trying to be proactive and make changes before things get worse. There are 5 of us siblings splitting care duties for mum but my brother will be starting cancer treatment next year which bring's us to 4. I'm also starting a new job next year and we all have our own separate lives and priorities, we dont live with mum but we stay every night and run her house...I can see so clearly now that it won't take much to have a domino effect unravelling the unsteady but functional system we have cobbled together this year!
What I'd be hoping for is to have mum used to seeing a new face in her home, which would be unusual for her. I do personally feel stretched too and never have the time to clean for her and feel bad that I can do everything.
I don't know how to bring it up to her as she is from a generation that would not like someone else to clean her house.
Any suggestions ? Did anyone find this helped when it came to needing more care support?
Mum's house isn't dirty at all but I'm trying to be proactive and make changes before things get worse. There are 5 of us siblings splitting care duties for mum but my brother will be starting cancer treatment next year which bring's us to 4. I'm also starting a new job next year and we all have our own separate lives and priorities, we dont live with mum but we stay every night and run her house...I can see so clearly now that it won't take much to have a domino effect unravelling the unsteady but functional system we have cobbled together this year!
What I'd be hoping for is to have mum used to seeing a new face in her home, which would be unusual for her. I do personally feel stretched too and never have the time to clean for her and feel bad that I can do everything.
I don't know how to bring it up to her as she is from a generation that would not like someone else to clean her house.
Any suggestions ? Did anyone find this helped when it came to needing more care support?