My husband I think has onset of dementia, his uncles had it, it does run in his family....His memory and ability to do things has went down. He forgets how to fix things...he struggles with life sometimes....makes me so sad......I planned a 10 day trip to babysit grand kids, I thought he would enjoy getting away, spending time with the kids, I involved him in the planning of this trip, airline tickets, etc, NOW he says 10 days is too long....he does not want to be a way from the house that long but we are already committed for this trip to babysit....I changed his ticket to only stay 5 days then a few days later he changed his mind and he wants to stay with me the whole 10 days....but he keeps complaining about it!! He does not want to be home alone, so he is stuck staying with me the whole time.....I am SO tired of justifying the 10 days to him....EVERYDAY i have this SAME conversation with him......How do I better prepare him for this??