My mum, 91 , recently had a bad fall, and was in hospital for 10 days. Released home . She has never had a care package , does not want one and on discussion with the SW dept they could not see what she could be needing anyway.
She lives alone. sleeps downstairs , (showerroom downstairs) She feeds herself and does a bit of housework . She takes her meds and manages mostly with my brother doing her shopping (and popping every other day ) and me doing her paperwork/banking etc and visiting from 80 miles once a week.
She will not put the heating on , turns it off as soon as i leave the house. She often does not put the fire on in the morning (sits with gloves and blankets ) Its on if she knows we are visiting . She unplugs the phone in the livingroom (the hall one is hardwired)
She says she unplugs things at night as its what shes always done. The heating is mainly being mean with money (she can readily afford her bills )My brother and I have told her , reasoned with her , even threatened if she falls in the night when the house is 5 degrees she could die.
Banging your head against a brick wall. She just says ..... thats just me . and i know she will not change . Rant over
She lives alone. sleeps downstairs , (showerroom downstairs) She feeds herself and does a bit of housework . She takes her meds and manages mostly with my brother doing her shopping (and popping every other day ) and me doing her paperwork/banking etc and visiting from 80 miles once a week.
She will not put the heating on , turns it off as soon as i leave the house. She often does not put the fire on in the morning (sits with gloves and blankets ) Its on if she knows we are visiting . She unplugs the phone in the livingroom (the hall one is hardwired)
She says she unplugs things at night as its what shes always done. The heating is mainly being mean with money (she can readily afford her bills )My brother and I have told her , reasoned with her , even threatened if she falls in the night when the house is 5 degrees she could die.
Banging your head against a brick wall. She just says ..... thats just me . and i know she will not change . Rant over