Over the past few months my 91 year old wife, for whom I am her sole carer, has become increasingly resistant to anything I try to do to help and / or encourage - to the point where it has now reached the stage of refusing to eat, drink or take medication. I have advised our GP of this but to no avail other than to be told elderly people, especially with dementia, often react in this manner. It is also thought unlikely my OH would respond any better towards someone else albeit I have succeeded in getting outside help in to assist with showering and hair wash. Is that it ?? - or is it time to take more radical action. ? Any thoughts would be welcomed.