My mother threw a pen at my face and then slapped me because I'm following an attys advice not to write out checks to another family member. I have POA, I live with her, and am trying to do the right things by her. She doesn't agree. She cannot speak, barely understands writing. She Has no clue. She gets aggressive and acts out. I have to walk away. Her Dr. Prescribed her Paroxetine. It did not help. So I took her off it. Maybe I should try it again. This disease is terrible. I cannot put up with the abusive behavior. I don't know what to do here. Any advice?