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I have power of attorney for a 90 year old elderly lady, she's not family to me, but sadly has no one in her family she could trust with the POA role hence asking me a few years ago.
She has severe memory loss and recently fractured her pelvis and was sent home from hospital with 6 weeks free care. This has now come to an end and she has to self fund as she's over the threshold for financial help. I put the recommended care of 3 times daily in place for her which she has cancelled saying she doesn't need it and its too expensive, I have persuaded her to have it just once a day although along with the carer we feel it isn't enough. We are awaiting a mental health assessment to look at capacity, the gp has escalated it but it still could be a while.
I care about her very much but she is a very difficult person (naturally difficult, putting aside her illness which is sadly how shes alienated her family over the years), my question is...
With power of attorney, how liable am I if she were to make a risky decision and cause danger to herself or even others (driving is a big concern, I have informed dvla, her gp and the local council safeguarding team but as yet nothing has been done, her son took her car and keys but ended up taking it back as she repeatedly phoned him through out the day demanding he return it), I guess i'm asking could I be held accountable if something awful happened to her or indeed someone else whether she is deemed as having capacity or if she still proves as difficult to help if confirmed as no capacity? I obviously want to do the best I can for her but my own family are concerned about how much will fall onto my shoulders should anything happen and if I would be in any way liable for not safeguarding her?
Thank you for accepting me to this forum.
I have power of attorney for a 90 year old elderly lady, she's not family to me, but sadly has no one in her family she could trust with the POA role hence asking me a few years ago.
She has severe memory loss and recently fractured her pelvis and was sent home from hospital with 6 weeks free care. This has now come to an end and she has to self fund as she's over the threshold for financial help. I put the recommended care of 3 times daily in place for her which she has cancelled saying she doesn't need it and its too expensive, I have persuaded her to have it just once a day although along with the carer we feel it isn't enough. We are awaiting a mental health assessment to look at capacity, the gp has escalated it but it still could be a while.
I care about her very much but she is a very difficult person (naturally difficult, putting aside her illness which is sadly how shes alienated her family over the years), my question is...
With power of attorney, how liable am I if she were to make a risky decision and cause danger to herself or even others (driving is a big concern, I have informed dvla, her gp and the local council safeguarding team but as yet nothing has been done, her son took her car and keys but ended up taking it back as she repeatedly phoned him through out the day demanding he return it), I guess i'm asking could I be held accountable if something awful happened to her or indeed someone else whether she is deemed as having capacity or if she still proves as difficult to help if confirmed as no capacity? I obviously want to do the best I can for her but my own family are concerned about how much will fall onto my shoulders should anything happen and if I would be in any way liable for not safeguarding her?