I live with my Dad however work full time (due to traveling time I would be unable to come home for lunch) and he is being tested but they are pretty sure what it is. I live at home with him on my own, I work full time however have family around 2 hours away. I really enjoy my work and don’t want to give up. I cared for my Mum with my Dad and took so much out of me. Im not sure if I can do this on my own and what happens when the time comes, I have 20 years to work. Is it selfish of me not wanting to care and for my family to take care when it is needed? They have suggested it but just feel like I will be letting him down.