Hi everyone
I am looking after my mum who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s last year (but has probably been suffering for much longer). My father passed away in 2014 so mum had been on her own for a while. Mum has just turned 80.
I have a tricky situation to navigate with regard to her having a dog. We are just about to rehome one we rescued last year for her who is far too boisterous and strong but also I was increasingly concerned about her caring for the dog properly due the her illness. We have found the dog a lovely new home but obviously this is extremely emotional for mum.
Upon hearing about a new home being found mum immediately asked when we would be getting her a new more suitable dog, she became even more upset when I suggested this would not be immediate hoping to buy some time for her settle into a life without a dog. She’s always had dogs and refuses to consider a small dog - she wants a large dog like she always has had (Labrador) and gets very angry if I push back on this.
Coinciding with this, in the advice of the consultant I am organising companions to be with mum 4 days a week to ensure mum goes out and does things as she has become house bound and retreated into herself making the Alzheimer’s progress more quickly. A lot of change!
Has anyone had a similar situation regarding a dog or other pet and perhaps has some advice about how best to approach this?
I am looking after my mum who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s last year (but has probably been suffering for much longer). My father passed away in 2014 so mum had been on her own for a while. Mum has just turned 80.
I have a tricky situation to navigate with regard to her having a dog. We are just about to rehome one we rescued last year for her who is far too boisterous and strong but also I was increasingly concerned about her caring for the dog properly due the her illness. We have found the dog a lovely new home but obviously this is extremely emotional for mum.
Upon hearing about a new home being found mum immediately asked when we would be getting her a new more suitable dog, she became even more upset when I suggested this would not be immediate hoping to buy some time for her settle into a life without a dog. She’s always had dogs and refuses to consider a small dog - she wants a large dog like she always has had (Labrador) and gets very angry if I push back on this.
Coinciding with this, in the advice of the consultant I am organising companions to be with mum 4 days a week to ensure mum goes out and does things as she has become house bound and retreated into herself making the Alzheimer’s progress more quickly. A lot of change!
Has anyone had a similar situation regarding a dog or other pet and perhaps has some advice about how best to approach this?