Hi Newanne
Your post made me feel so much better. DVLA didnt renew my OH,'s license so the arguments about who is driving were over and I could blame the DVLA every time he blamed me! I do all the driving but he still tries to get in the drivers seat! Anger is so hurtful and heartbreaking when you are there for them caring and loving. I call it Mr Alzheimer’s when the anger overtakes him and try to remember it's not personal. Broad shoulders, white lies, diversions, hiding important documents all part of the coping process for those of us who are full time carers. My OH relocates things, sometimes I don't find them for months. Blood pressure monitor latest thing to dissappear, I only put it down to answer the door. Haven't found it yet and he denies ever touching it yet alone giving me a clue where it is, he has no recollection of what he does with all the things he hides. Sometimes I can see the funny side, sometimes it's just so frustrating. I have to warn everyone who comes into the house to hold on to their keys, phones etc.