Hi - My husband of 39 years has Alzheimer's Disease and has been a resident in a memory unit for 18 months. He has been clinically depressed for years and is a recovering alcoholic. When I visit, he cries and holds on so tight. I hate to see him live out his life like this. Emotionally, I am on a roller coaster between sadness of my own, empathy for him, and being overwhelmed at times because I know this can go on for a very, very long time. I am so grateful I have family