Hi
I’m not sure if I should be asking advice here as my Mum has already died.
Anyway, my problem is that Mum had dementia and wasn’t diagnosed. I had hoped the she would be referred to the memory clinic but she developed cancer and died a couple of months later.
I have four younger brothers and sisters, my problem is that they don’t believe there was anything wrong with Mum. I was in daily contact with her, visiting or phoning, and sometimes she would appear to be fine and others times she was unbelievably horrible to me accusing me of all sorts of things. One of my brothers was extremely abusive to me because he believed what Mum was saying.
I’m so upset by this that I can’t sleep.
I wondered if anyone else has had to deal with this sort of situation, I really need some advice.
Thank you very much.
I’m not sure if I should be asking advice here as my Mum has already died.
Anyway, my problem is that Mum had dementia and wasn’t diagnosed. I had hoped the she would be referred to the memory clinic but she developed cancer and died a couple of months later.
I have four younger brothers and sisters, my problem is that they don’t believe there was anything wrong with Mum. I was in daily contact with her, visiting or phoning, and sometimes she would appear to be fine and others times she was unbelievably horrible to me accusing me of all sorts of things. One of my brothers was extremely abusive to me because he believed what Mum was saying.
I’m so upset by this that I can’t sleep.
I wondered if anyone else has had to deal with this sort of situation, I really need some advice.
Thank you very much.