Hi there,
my mum suddenly got advanced dementia following a stroke that left her very disabled, she has been in a nursing home for the past 18 months. As her physical condition has improved and she has made it very clear that she wants to come home, we are arranging for her to come home. We can't wait to tell her because we know the news will make her very happy, but she doesn't seem to have a sense of time. The move is planned for mid November, and if we tell her now we are worried she may expect it to happen much sooner. My mum doesn't speak any more which makes it more difficult to understand what she's thinking, feeling and what questions she may have . Any suggestions on when it would be an appropriate time to tell my mum that she's coming home and any other advice on how to explain this to her would be very welcome.
my mum suddenly got advanced dementia following a stroke that left her very disabled, she has been in a nursing home for the past 18 months. As her physical condition has improved and she has made it very clear that she wants to come home, we are arranging for her to come home. We can't wait to tell her because we know the news will make her very happy, but she doesn't seem to have a sense of time. The move is planned for mid November, and if we tell her now we are worried she may expect it to happen much sooner. My mum doesn't speak any more which makes it more difficult to understand what she's thinking, feeling and what questions she may have . Any suggestions on when it would be an appropriate time to tell my mum that she's coming home and any other advice on how to explain this to her would be very welcome.