My mother in law and his stepfather have employed a carer privately. The carer has taken responsibility for all of my in laws medical needs, we are not made aware of any issues ( some quite serious) and tells us that the in laws don't want us to know. She has also taken control of all of their finances, she has her debit cards and takes them to the bank regularly. She discourages us visiting, which we continue to do.
What can we do?
What can we do?