When it comes to "light housekeeping" and caring for your LO, what is acceptable to ask?
I have a new carer that i will be employing and wanted to find out the rules (if any) .
For example- I have someone whom I trust with Ma and know she will be taken care of. However she will not do certain things.
So ill ask her to check the bathroom (not clean!) for towels and make sure sink is draining. She says absolutely and never does.
Same with asking Ma to brush her teeth or if she needs help brushing her teeth. Absolutely, she says. Never. Not once unless I text her to ask.
Emptying the small trash bin. It's usually overflowing.
Refilling her cereal- which she does when i ask her! But leaves the box open (I fear of rodents, which has happened before and had to get my neighbour to help. I was far)
Cleaning up - after herself. She will make tea and stuff for Ma and drips all around and won't clean it up.
She always says yes. Especially when i ask and I pay her very well. And she's there a lot of hours. Just sitting usually. Ma's actually been saying - that she doesn't do anything other than "sit" (I swear, the things this woman catches on to).
So am I asking too much?
(I do have a cleaner, carers sister who doesn't clean well but Ma likes her for tea 😀)
Thanks.
I have a new carer that i will be employing and wanted to find out the rules (if any) .
For example- I have someone whom I trust with Ma and know she will be taken care of. However she will not do certain things.
So ill ask her to check the bathroom (not clean!) for towels and make sure sink is draining. She says absolutely and never does.
Same with asking Ma to brush her teeth or if she needs help brushing her teeth. Absolutely, she says. Never. Not once unless I text her to ask.
Emptying the small trash bin. It's usually overflowing.
Refilling her cereal- which she does when i ask her! But leaves the box open (I fear of rodents, which has happened before and had to get my neighbour to help. I was far)
Cleaning up - after herself. She will make tea and stuff for Ma and drips all around and won't clean it up.
She always says yes. Especially when i ask and I pay her very well. And she's there a lot of hours. Just sitting usually. Ma's actually been saying - that she doesn't do anything other than "sit" (I swear, the things this woman catches on to).
So am I asking too much?
(I do have a cleaner, carers sister who doesn't clean well but Ma likes her for tea 😀)
Thanks.