Good Morning,
I am hoping somebody can help me.
My mother has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and has been struggling to keep herself safe at home.
After a stay in Hospital she has been assessed and recommended to go into a EMI Care Home. After reviewing some a home was decided which had good reviews and a good CQC rating
She has now been moved into this property and has a room with a shower and appears to have settled in well. She is also close to my Dad and he visits daily (he is also suffering from Dementia but currently independent)
My problem is, i have recently found out that my sister is named as Next of Kin and has been making all the decisions recently about finances etc. It was only after a chat with a nurse in Hospital did I find this out.
Unfortunately her mental state means she can no longer make decisions.
Now it has come to my attention that my sister is trying to move my mum to a location closer to her for convenience for herself.
The home where she is currently is less than a mile from my Dad and all family who are able live within 3 miles of it so distance isn't really an issue.
However the home she is moving her too has a poor CQC rating and has a poor reputation for poor care but she it has been agreed she is moving between the 2 homes this week which i have just found out about this morning.
Nobody will speak to anybody else because my sister is Next of Kin and it appears we will have no choice but to go with her, in the opinion of a few family members poor decision.
Is there anything I can do?
Deputyship has been looked at, but this will take months i believe.
Thanks in advance.
I am hoping somebody can help me.
My mother has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and has been struggling to keep herself safe at home.
After a stay in Hospital she has been assessed and recommended to go into a EMI Care Home. After reviewing some a home was decided which had good reviews and a good CQC rating
She has now been moved into this property and has a room with a shower and appears to have settled in well. She is also close to my Dad and he visits daily (he is also suffering from Dementia but currently independent)
My problem is, i have recently found out that my sister is named as Next of Kin and has been making all the decisions recently about finances etc. It was only after a chat with a nurse in Hospital did I find this out.
Unfortunately her mental state means she can no longer make decisions.
Now it has come to my attention that my sister is trying to move my mum to a location closer to her for convenience for herself.
The home where she is currently is less than a mile from my Dad and all family who are able live within 3 miles of it so distance isn't really an issue.
However the home she is moving her too has a poor CQC rating and has a poor reputation for poor care but she it has been agreed she is moving between the 2 homes this week which i have just found out about this morning.
Nobody will speak to anybody else because my sister is Next of Kin and it appears we will have no choice but to go with her, in the opinion of a few family members poor decision.
Is there anything I can do?
Deputyship has been looked at, but this will take months i believe.
Thanks in advance.