Hi everyone, I am a new member and have come here looking for advice and support. I have had concerns about my Mum's memory/mental health for around 6 months now. I have now managed to convince her that it's a good idea that we speak to the doctor and we are awaiting an appointment.
I have read up on the symptoms of dementia but am unsure if this is what she has - I guess this is what the doctor is for! She is repeating herself often, often unsure of the day of the week, requires help to complete forms, asks for lots of repetition and reassurance (eg if we have plans to do something). She has more recently got muddled with some things, forgets some words, and has just started rolling her hand in the air as she is talking, it seems almost as though to keep the train of thought moving. She has also started talking about the past A LOT and doesn't seem to show any empathy or interest in the people around her - she asks how my day was but really isn't interested in the answer and will quickly move the conversation back to herself.
However, there are other things she is very capable of - she picks my daughter up from school and I have good confidence that she would always be there. She can get herself out and about (although often lacks motivation to do so) but panics about getting herself to and from unfamiliar locations and so does many practise runs.
I realise this forum isn't for medical advice, but does anyone have any thoughts to share on these symptoms? I felt so unkind sharing my concerns with her as I know it is now worrying her, but I also don't want to wait for things to get worse.
Thanks in advance for reading
I have read up on the symptoms of dementia but am unsure if this is what she has - I guess this is what the doctor is for! She is repeating herself often, often unsure of the day of the week, requires help to complete forms, asks for lots of repetition and reassurance (eg if we have plans to do something). She has more recently got muddled with some things, forgets some words, and has just started rolling her hand in the air as she is talking, it seems almost as though to keep the train of thought moving. She has also started talking about the past A LOT and doesn't seem to show any empathy or interest in the people around her - she asks how my day was but really isn't interested in the answer and will quickly move the conversation back to herself.
However, there are other things she is very capable of - she picks my daughter up from school and I have good confidence that she would always be there. She can get herself out and about (although often lacks motivation to do so) but panics about getting herself to and from unfamiliar locations and so does many practise runs.
I realise this forum isn't for medical advice, but does anyone have any thoughts to share on these symptoms? I felt so unkind sharing my concerns with her as I know it is now worrying her, but I also don't want to wait for things to get worse.
Thanks in advance for reading