hello world!
its been a weekend of 2 halves!
We now know that mum is unable to use a phone of either the house phone or the mobile variety! I finally tracked her mobile phone down charged it up and left it next to her chair. I have been tossing up whether to cancel the contract or leave it going. I think the final test is to get her brother to call her on it and see what she does.
Thing is do I get rid of the phone and get her a pendant alarm thingi which I am not sure she will be able to understand/use
We also know that the Donepezil appears to be working - sort of.
How do we know this? Mum took a tumble up (yes you read that right) the garden steps 15 or so minutes before I got home from sorting the horses out. The dogs were going ballistic at the back gate and she wandered down to see what it was all about. turned round, lost her balance and then said that she tripped over a dog and landed with her chest over the edge of a step. Nothing broken from what I can tell, but she was quite jarred up about the experience and I can safely say a little battered and bruised. But the big thing was that she remembered what had happened in enough detail to tell me about it when I got in. The yin to this yang is that after a nights sleep she has no recollection of the fall, just that her chest hurts.
The fall now makes me feel extremely guilty (stupid I know) for actually getting on one of my horses and going out for a ride and enjoying myself (having said that it was a very short ride round a field and I was worrying more about the ground conditions than anything else tbh)- something I haven't done since the intervention last November
Since it was a nice day yesterday I took her to see the horses. I parked her in a chair and she held court with the other liveries and the stories that she told were very believable and she got to pet one of the big beasties and feed her (the horse) treats
Thing is I think that there has been another small slide. The amount of time that she is sleeping in bed has gone up since the fall and her choice of clothing over the last couple of days has been a touch interesting. I know its only been a couple of days, and its hard to tell if there is a pattern especially since the drugs mask a lot of things but..... I don't know.
I am not sure why I have written this..... maybe to know I am not going totally bonkers?
Does the "hive mind" have suggestions about the pendant alarm thingi?
its been a weekend of 2 halves!
We now know that mum is unable to use a phone of either the house phone or the mobile variety! I finally tracked her mobile phone down charged it up and left it next to her chair. I have been tossing up whether to cancel the contract or leave it going. I think the final test is to get her brother to call her on it and see what she does.
Thing is do I get rid of the phone and get her a pendant alarm thingi which I am not sure she will be able to understand/use
We also know that the Donepezil appears to be working - sort of.
How do we know this? Mum took a tumble up (yes you read that right) the garden steps 15 or so minutes before I got home from sorting the horses out. The dogs were going ballistic at the back gate and she wandered down to see what it was all about. turned round, lost her balance and then said that she tripped over a dog and landed with her chest over the edge of a step. Nothing broken from what I can tell, but she was quite jarred up about the experience and I can safely say a little battered and bruised. But the big thing was that she remembered what had happened in enough detail to tell me about it when I got in. The yin to this yang is that after a nights sleep she has no recollection of the fall, just that her chest hurts.
The fall now makes me feel extremely guilty (stupid I know) for actually getting on one of my horses and going out for a ride and enjoying myself (having said that it was a very short ride round a field and I was worrying more about the ground conditions than anything else tbh)- something I haven't done since the intervention last November
Since it was a nice day yesterday I took her to see the horses. I parked her in a chair and she held court with the other liveries and the stories that she told were very believable and she got to pet one of the big beasties and feed her (the horse) treats
Thing is I think that there has been another small slide. The amount of time that she is sleeping in bed has gone up since the fall and her choice of clothing over the last couple of days has been a touch interesting. I know its only been a couple of days, and its hard to tell if there is a pattern especially since the drugs mask a lot of things but..... I don't know.
I am not sure why I have written this..... maybe to know I am not going totally bonkers?
Does the "hive mind" have suggestions about the pendant alarm thingi?