I met with the Social Workers boss this week. He said he was going to have the EMI guidelines with him but did not.
The dementia team have confirmed that they always "like" to do a formal diagnosis when the person is out of a hospital environment. The current diagnosis of VasD may well be correct but they must assess Mom some more to make sure they get that label correct.
I now know the real reason they would not send Mom to the nursing home of my choice. It not down to the EMI unit or diagnosis. It is totally down to funding.
I knew all along the reablement programme is free and has to funded by LA. However I was willing to top up to get Mom in the NH where she will more than likely spend her last days.
Can you believe that SW and Boss did not know this when they made the decision and later bulked as they thought I might try to claim the money back. The NH would not make a deal with LA.
So the choice was to cancel the last chance of Mom ever coming home by putting her in NH of choice for good or find somewhere else that would accept the LA rate.
I have now found another NH but only for the reablement programme so if Mom is unable to come home then another move to the original one will have to happen, if they still have room.
Good news is that Mom is totally unaware of all this and was on cracking form all day in Hospital.
Thanks for all the advice.